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Confidence.
Women are attracted to men who look confident (not to be mistaken
with arrogance), in control, comfortable and at ease in any
situation and environment. Confidence is one of the most important
traits in a man. Remember, with women it is mostly a psychological
game!
• Charme.
Again, this is not to be confused with arrogance. A charming man
is a man who is relaxed, funny, slightly flirtatious (not sleazy!)
and a good entertainer (although not a clown!).
• Good manners.
If you are rude, ignorant and do not know how to behave in public,
you would be considered as a simple embarrassment. Women would not
want to be associated with you and in most cases would avoid you
like the plague.
• Savoire faire.
Women love attention. This is a fact. They love to feel that they
are the most important and precious thing ever. If you want to get
a woman, you must show her attention. You must be careful not to
over-do it though. If you over-do it, she will loose interest. You
must pay her a compliment every now and then, offer her a drink
(or whatever), show her some attention for a while, but you must
also give your attention to other people (i.e. you must never give
the impression of being desperate. The moment you do, she will
loose interest). You must leave her with the feeling of wanting
more from you.
• Look clean and smell nice.
Most women are really put off by a man who looks scruffy or dirty
or that can be smelled from a distance! Avoid bathing in cheap
aftershave or use half a bottle of deodorant. That is SERIOUSLY
off putting. Use, sparingly, only expensive aftershave (avoid
cheap and nasty stuff: women can tell!) and bit of good and
non-overpowering deodorant (i.e. if you leave a strong trail, you
have over-done it).
• Tell interesting stories.
Women respond very well to conversation. They love to hear funny
anecdotes or cool short stories (e.g. adventures you or your
friends have had etc). AVOID long monologues or giving too many
details when telling stories. This is not considered as
‘interesting conversation’ but as ‘boring and agonising listening
session’. DO NOT go there.
• Listen to her.
Show a real interest in the things that she is saying. When women
talk, they share a part of themselves, being that dreams,
experiences, feelings etc. When they do that, they feel they have
connected with you. Women detest men who do listen to
seriously infuriates them
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