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A. SET AN AIM IN LIFE
If you sit in the boat of life without knowing your
destination you will become the slave of circumstances and other
people. Your progress or development will totally depend on your
luck. The wind of circumstances will push the boat to any
direction - you won't have any control on anything. And you will
rarely be able to make things happen. You may even be crushed by
the competition forced upon you by other people. To change this
scenario you need to set an aim for your life. It is true that a
person has several aims in life but to decide about chief aim is
essential to make good progress. When you have an aim it is like a
destination - you can chart your route, plan your action and
formulate strategies to reach their at a speed. The personality of
such a person automatically get a sort of charisma - developed by
his driving force.
B. POWER OF KNOWLEDGE
Knowledge is power. Nobody is impressed with a
person who doesn't even know what is happening around or in the
world. He is considered a fool whom no wise man or woman would
like to befriend or follow. Therefore it is necessary to enrich
your general knowledge. And you should be the master of the field
in which you are working. To update your general knowledge: a)
read newspaper, b) watch informative programs on TV, c) read good
& popular books, d) interact (interrelate, communicate) with
intelligent persons.
C. LOOK CONFIDENT
A look of confidence on your face impresses
everybody. If you walk with a feeling of failure and frustration
on your face people will shun away from you. Even if you are
facing difficulties and worries in your life you must know how to
think and look positive. Shake hands with others firmly. While
shaking hands or talking make an eye contact with others. Speak
less and with conviction. Such simple actions will maintain your
confidence. Your self-confidence can not only conquer the
mountains of difficulties but also the interview boards.
D. SPEAK IN STYLE
Most of the successful persons maintain a unique
style in speaking. They speak clearly and forcefully. Be careful
that you have a good command on the language you speak. Don't make
grammatical mistakes else you may become a laughing stock. If
necessary take training from a good teacher. Give extra care to
your pronunciation. Speaking power is an essential trait of any
good personality.
E. DRESS UP SMARTLY
A smartly dressed-up person is admired everywhere.
By observing successful people in any field, marketing, business,
movies, media etc., you will come to the conclusion that most of
the successful persons in almost every field have a keen taste for
good dresses. Good dresses also prove a stimulus for the wearer.
He feels more confident and relaxed. There is a joyful glow on his
face. His
F. HEALTHY BODY
A body burdened with this or that disease may win
pity of others but it is very difficulty for that person to
maintain attraction in his personality for a long time. A healthy
and smart look is absolutely essential to attract others. And if
you work on it you can easily attain it. Take exercise regularly,
play games or go for a morning walk - whatever suits your body and
psychology. Eat balanced diet. It will strengthen the immune
system of your body - keeping you healthy and fit for action.
G. GOOD HABITS
A man is generally a creature of his habits. With
bad habits you may become a sheer nuisance for others. Then how
will you impress them? Cleanliness, punctuality, completing your
works on time, fulfilling your promises, having sincerity and
dedication to work, listening others properly, keeping yourself
away from smoking and drinking - are the habits which add sparkle
and dynamism to your personality. They endear you to the people.
You should also be friendly and polite while dealing with others.
You won't be able to impress the people with an attitude of
arrogance. If people feel uncomfortable in your presence it is a
sign that you need to improve your behaviour. Others must feel
easy while approaching or talking to you.
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